High Heels and High Standards

This past weekend, I went out to a local spot in town with one of my best friend and had a ball! But being the person that I am, I notice and give meaning to every little thing lol.. With that being said, there was this guy that came up and asked me for my number. Mind you, I had seen him numerous times with his girlfriend, so I told him just that. You know "Sorry but I see you with your girlfriend all the time and I don't get down like that". So he laughed it off and said his girlfriend had nothing to do with me and he just wanted to take me out and buy me nice things.. PAUSE

Now this scenario can go two ways, I can either accept and allow this man to take me out knowing I could never have all of him because he is already obligated to someone.. OR I can take the classy route and decline. So that's what I did. I let him know I don't condone cheating, and I won't play a part in it. Now most of you know the typical male response goes something like "oh you wasn't all that anyway" lls! However, his response threw me for a loop.. He said "Yo that's what's up, I like you.." And that made me put some things into perspective: Guys have a certain type of respect for women with class and high standards.
Carry On –>


4 thoughts on “High Heels and High Standards

  1. Great blog post bestie….a lot of females need to understand that men use the money as a means of control…cause a lot of girls will do anything for the next dollar!…glad we have never been on that!!!


  2. It amazes me how some women would have fallen for this dude with the quickness. Setting Standards are very important because if you dont stand for something you will fall for anything. Sleeping around and creeping around just for status and material purposes only lead to heartbreak and fakeness. Believe you are worth time, money, mental stimulation, and worth being the only ONE.


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